Hello Barbara, in our holistic studio we also carry out traditional treatments, such as the Californian massage, the Swedish or Ayurvedic massage, these are treatments that are performed in disposable briefs and there is no contact with the genitals; if instead you want to experiment with a tantric massage, we definitely recommend the Tantra Kundalini massage, in this case the massage begins with a ritual of tantric breathing, cleaning the Aura and rebalancing the Chakras, which is carried out in a pareo, to prepare the person gradually to receive the treatment. Regarding a couple massage to also involve your husband, we always recommend the same treatment, in this case, you can experience the massage first alone, and then make it in pairs.
Sara-Sex Academy

Good morning Fabrizio, the erotic fantasy you described is very common in consolidated couples, the idea and desire to insert a third person (man or woman) in sexual intercourse is a way like many others to rekindle erotic desire in a relationship that often over time it tends to fade. Reigniting the sexual flame is fundamental in a couple, so that the relationship is lasting and strong over time; obviously having a threesome, if you are not psychologically ready, you can get the opposite result. In our center we have studied a massage for couples who want to approach this erotic fantasy, in a very soft way, then introducing an erotic massage in the couple, where the partner can watch the whole treatment, comfortably seated on an armchair, with curtains that divide the two environments; I refer to the Voyeur massage, a massage that is designed to stimulate the erotic fantasy of both the recipient and the observer, without any kind of sexual intercourse. Before starting a massage, it is explained in detail how it takes place, to avoid misunderstandings and misunderstandings, because those who receive a treatment must know and be aware of the type of massage they will receive.
Alessandro-Sex Academy

Hello Alessandro, in Tantra orgasm is not the purpose of the massage as is often believed, but during a tantric session the Kundalini is reactivated, i.e. the primary energy, the sexual energy that starts from the 1st chakra and goes up to the 7th one of the crown, for this reason during the treatment all the chakras are rebalanced, eliminating possible blockages, and making the energy flow freely; during the reactivation the person can also reach orgasm, which in this case is a liberating orgasm, of pure energy, a bit like with crying during a psychological therapy, the orgasm is used to release the latent energy that is accumulates in our body.
Alessandro-Sex Academy