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Roberto 40
Roberto – 40
Good morning. I am a married man with two young children. Unfortunately life has changed and I would like, even if in a hidden way, to have new experiences. Not knowing where to start I thought I could start with myself … What could you recommend? Which path to take? Thank you
Hello Roberto, married life, and above all that of father, mean that in a consolidated couple the intimacy and sexual complicity of the first years together may disappear, his problem unfortunately is common in many couples, that with the passing of the time, they dedicate themselves to their partner, no longer as a lover, but simply as a husband and family man, and obviously vice versa in the case of his wife. Keeping the fire of passion alive is fundamental to fully enjoy one’s married life, otherwise all those sexual and non-sexual pleasures that we no longer cultivate at home, with the natural consequences of a break of the relationship. What I advise you, is to rediscover the pleasure that has linked you to your partner, to start from there and together embark on a path of sexual growth that in recent years has definitely stopped. What is the best path to take will you discover together, talking to each other about their sexual fantasies, and how to share them. Remember the first fundamental thing that men often forget: the same sexual fantasies and needs that a man has, even a woman has them, so why look for what we already have at home?
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Marco 45
Marco – 45
Hello, I wanted your opinion. I practice 4-time tantra every time with 2 operators. Lately I am approaching 4-handed tantra with a nudity operator and operator. In this threesome context, I’m noticing that I can experience the massage more intensely. I wanted to know if, in your opinion, it may be even if unconsciously a first bisexual approach, even if this pleasure only manifests itself in a three-way context, even in the presence of a woman and not in the presence of a single male figure. Thank you
Hello Marco, the nature of each individual is divided by a male and a female component, sometimes in an individual one can be more pronounced with respect to another; for example in a homosexual man, the female component is much more accentuated than the male one, to experience erotic pleasure in an individual of the same sex, is not an abnormal or wrong thing, unfortunately our society has developed on heterosexual couple models , and just having sexual interest for a person of our own sex, has always been seen and interpreted as something wrong and sick, these prejudices have obviously created a series of misconceptions about sexuality. In your specific case, you are discovering that in a Tantra massage performed also by a man, it is not as annoying as you could have imagined, you have simply overcome that mental limit that imposes us all heterosexuals, and that an erotic fantasy can be born and can be developed even with another man.
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Filippo – 35
Good morning. I would like to come for a tantra kundalini. I foresee it could lead to sexual arousal, but I do not want to have sex with the masseuse. What precautionary measures are available? Or is condom provided to prevent contact with her vaginal fluids and any infections risks?
Good morning Filippo, in the Tantra massage there is no contact with the masseuse, and no type of sexual relationship is contemplated, unfortunately today many people use the word Tantra to offer paid sex, but the Tantra massage is nothing of all that , it is a very relaxing and energetic massage, where one works mainly to unblock the client’s chakras and let our internal energy, the Kundalini, flow naturally. The treatment is done only with the hands, there is no type of interaction with the masseuse, and therefore it is not possible to contract any type of sexually transmitted disease.
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