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Francesco 32
Francesco – 32
Hi, I would like to have some clarifications on some details about the tantra massages practiced by you: I would like to give a first experience in this kind of massages to my wonderful companion, who has shown herself very interested. In the meantime, we would like to know if, in the 4-hand massage, it could be massaged by two male masseurs instead of a man and a woman. Furthermore, we would like to ask, without in any way wanting to lack respect for anyone, if in receiving the massage, under the skilled hands of the masseur (s), and receiving what I believe is called “Yoni Massage”, could in some way to become an active part; which can be understood both as an involvement in the form of a dialogue with the masseur, and as a desire to touch his naked body in turn. Thank you.
Good morning Francesco, in our center it is not possible to receive a 4-handed Tantra massage from two masseurs, but only from a masseur and a masseuse, so that the male and female energy is balanced during the treatment. During a massage the important thing is to abandon yourself at the moment, to let yourself be carried away by the sensations you receive, for this reason massages are receptive, to fully enjoy the emotions that only Tantra can give.
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Marco 45
Marco – 45
Hello, more than a question, I ask for advice in reference to an experience that has recently been consummated in a center during a 4-hand massage with masseur and masseuse. Accomplice to the Mediterranean beauty of the masseuse who saw me very involved from the moment, she went further, who should not but happened, consuming my first threesome relationship and above all my first complete bisex report. I leave this confused experience today, not knowing if only the situation is complicit or perhaps my true bisexual nature. Can you give me your opinion? Thanks and congratulations for the forum that allows you to tackle various phases.
Hello Marco, the experience you had, opened up a new vision of your sexuality, many people have never had such relationships, simply because the preconceptions of society, have imposed a sexuality based on a relationship between two, between a man and a woman, without giving vent to our true nature, which can also be bisexual, and that a sexual relationship can also be consumed in three; obviously everything that is different from the standard scares us, we ask ourselves many questions about what is wrong and what is not, but the only question we have to ask ourselves is whether we liked this experience or not, if it was a stimulus for discover new things about us, or if it has created a sexual block; no one can tell us what is right in sex, they are the feelings we feel during a relationship that can satisfy us or not. What I advise you is to always follow your nature, and to experience sexuality in the most free way possible, only with the various experiences you can understand if having relationships with other men, they make a strong bisexual nature emerge, or if it is simply a fantasy erotica, a game that after a while does not give us more stimulation, but that surely has opened you to a more complete vision of your sexuality.
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A.-38
A. – 38
Good morning, I am writing to you because some time ago I came to do a swinger couple massage with my husband. First of all I apologize but I would like to remain anonymous because sincerely I am a bit ashamed. The massage was a wonderful experience, I noticed a lot of involvement with the masseur, he invited me to touch and caress him. I’d like to know if it’s normal for me to feel excited with the masseur, not thinking at all about my partner. There were moments when I felt his body parts just above mine and I would really let myself go to a relationship. I can’t understand the extent to which the professional side and the pleasure of going further. Because I think there should also be feeling and transportation. If he hadn’t liked me he wouldn’t have looked at me and smelled that way, I think. I would like to come back and go further with him, but I don’t know if I’m fantasizing and above all I don’t know what kind of reaction my husband could have. I hope I haven’t offended anyone.
Hello A., we are happy that you found yourself well in our center, about your question, if it is normal to get excited during an erotic massage, the answer is already in the type of treatment you have chosen to do, in an erotic massage, and especially in the Swinger massage, the aim is to bring people who receive it into a state of well-being and gradual excitement, which progressively increases during the course of the massage, to do this we obviously work on stimulating all the senses , from hearing, smell, sight, to the touch, just to create an energy connection between those who practice and those who receive the treatment. The Swinger massage is a total body, it is worked all over the body with enveloping maneuvers and being a dynamic massage the person is invited to have a contact of caresses with the masseur and the masseuse, to establish a synergy between the parts. The seriousness and professionalism of a masseur or a masseuse lies precisely in creating a limit with the customer that should not be exceeded, otherwise it would no longer be a massage. The best thing about any erotic massage is to create a state of well-being and give emotions that we are not usually used to experiencing, even in a relationship with our partner. All those emotions and sensations you felt during the treatment, I can assure you that they are the same ones that your husband felt; because his thoughts were directed solely towards the masseur and not towards her husband, we cannot answer to this, everything is linked to your relationship and to the feeling that unites you. If you want to return to our center again, we will be happy to welcome you, always remembering that we do this work for passion and in a professional way, not practicing anything that does not fit into a massage.
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