Dario – 49

Dario – 49

Hi, on the net I read several sites that talk about increasing male sexual control and potency with a specific practice. It involves contracting the pelvic floor, intermittently or for several seconds, after several days, these muscles obviously become stronger and sensitive results are obtained in sexual practice. What do you tell me about it? There are also alternative practices? Thanks for the reply and congratulations for your activity !!!

Hello Dario, thank you first of all for the compliments, what you read on the internet is exactly true, this type of exercise, they serve precisely to enhance the control of orgasm, but not only, also to increase the pleasure during the orgasmic response, exercises which are also recommended for women who have difficulty reaching orgasm during sexual intercourse. There are other practices that help control orgasm, especially for those suffering from premature ejaculation, from diaphragmatic or abdominal breathing exercises, to those to free the pelvis, of more eastern origin, which are used in tantric sex, in which the ratio can last for hours without reaching ejaculation, but only with an internal orgasm, or the Stop & Start technique is very useful, which gradually improve, through excellent exercises performed alone, and then in pairs, with excellent results in orgasm control.
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Dario – 492019-03-26T11:08:58+01:00

Andrea – 19

Andrea – 19

Good evening, mine more than a question is a curiosity that really needs to be filled. I am interested in many of the mentioned massages, more than for the simple erotic side, precisely, for an increasingly strong curiosity. For example: During any massage, does touching the masseur agree? During a massage, can you go beyond that? Let me start by saying that I am a boy who is a bit difficult to move initially given his initial shyness.

Good evening Andrea, all the treatments are always receptive, the person who receives the massage must relax, close his eyes and abandon himself in the hands of the operator, only in this way will he be able to fully enjoy the treatment, the preparation is fundamental before receiving a massage. In our price list there are some treatments that include an initial contact with the operator, such as the Kama Sutra massage and the Swinger massage, but they are maneuvers that are carried out in the initial part of the ritual, where both the recipient of the massage and the operator is covered with the pareo, never during treatment. In our center we do not perform any kind of service that goes beyond the massage.
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Andrea – 192019-03-26T11:12:35+01:00

Sofia – 30

Sofia – 30

Good evening, I am Sofia, I wanted to present a question of mine that has been buzzing in my mind for a while: how long can a couple’s relationship last if there is no love from one of the spouses? Can work, family and common activities keep two people together without love ?! My husband is always gloomy and sleepy on the couch, we spend whole days without touching, kissing each other and even in the evening when we could be together and go to bed for his part. We communicate yes, but if I introduce the discourse it justifies me by giving me paranoia and that it loves me. But in fact … do you believe that a couple like us, living together for a year, can stay more than 10 days without consuming a relationship? I hope for some enlightening advice before throwing in the towel. Good evening.

Good evening Sofia, managing a couple relationship is always a complicated thing, especially for a couple that has been living together for a year, the reasons are many, and simplifying is always wrong and certainly does not help to find a possible solution. When a cohabitation begins, many things change in a couple, and sex is the first element that is missing, thanks to the routine, family problems, responsibilities, and all that world that transforms itself from when a couple goes from being simple boyfriends or lovers, to a well-defined family unit. Answering your question is not easy, surely carrying on a relationship without feelings is not easy, and at age 30 no one would want to live with a person who does not feel any kind of feeling, but would look for another person with whom they can rediscover certain emotions. Sex is not always the warning to understand if a relationship works or not, the fact is that every individual experiences sexuality in a different way, for some people it is fundamental in a couple relationship and for others not, there are people who have relationships daily and others who do not feel this need, and sex becomes something marginal. In a couple relationship, communication is the basis of a relationship, and even talking about sex, especially if there are problems, is essential to avoid problems. The advice I can give you is to explain to your husband how you feel about being rejected, and how much you lack certain care; if indeed there is love in the couple, you will see that he will understand and things will progressively improve, if it were not so it will mean that on the other hand there is no interest in improving a state of discomfort, which inevitably can also lead to the breaking of the relationship

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Sofia – 302019-03-26T12:37:44+01:00

Francesco 32

Francesco – 32

Hi, I would like to have some clarifications on some details about the tantra massages practiced by you: I would like to give a first experience in this kind of massages to my wonderful companion, who has shown herself very interested. In the meantime, we would like to know if, in the 4-hand massage, it could be massaged by two male masseurs instead of a man and a woman. Furthermore, we would like to ask, without in any way wanting to lack respect for anyone, if in receiving the massage, under the skilled hands of the masseur (s), and receiving what I believe is called “Yoni Massage”, could in some way to become an active part; which can be understood both as an involvement in the form of a dialogue with the masseur, and as a desire to touch his naked body in turn. Thank you.

Good morning Francesco, in our center it is not possible to receive a 4-handed Tantra massage from two masseurs, but only from a masseur and a masseuse, so that the male and female energy is balanced during the treatment. During a massage the important thing is to abandon yourself at the moment, to let yourself be carried away by the sensations you receive, for this reason massages are receptive, to fully enjoy the emotions that only Tantra can give.
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Francesco 322019-03-26T12:41:27+01:00

Marco 45

Marco – 45

Hello, more than a question, I ask for advice in reference to an experience that has recently been consummated in a center during a 4-hand massage with masseur and masseuse. Accomplice to the Mediterranean beauty of the masseuse who saw me very involved from the moment, she went further, who should not but happened, consuming my first threesome relationship and above all my first complete bisex report. I leave this confused experience today, not knowing if only the situation is complicit or perhaps my true bisexual nature. Can you give me your opinion? Thanks and congratulations for the forum that allows you to tackle various phases.

Hello Marco, the experience you had, opened up a new vision of your sexuality, many people have never had such relationships, simply because the preconceptions of society, have imposed a sexuality based on a relationship between two, between a man and a woman, without giving vent to our true nature, which can also be bisexual, and that a sexual relationship can also be consumed in three; obviously everything that is different from the standard scares us, we ask ourselves many questions about what is wrong and what is not, but the only question we have to ask ourselves is whether we liked this experience or not, if it was a stimulus for discover new things about us, or if it has created a sexual block; no one can tell us what is right in sex, they are the feelings we feel during a relationship that can satisfy us or not. What I advise you is to always follow your nature, and to experience sexuality in the most free way possible, only with the various experiences you can understand if having relationships with other men, they make a strong bisexual nature emerge, or if it is simply a fantasy erotica, a game that after a while does not give us more stimulation, but that surely has opened you to a more complete vision of your sexuality.
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Marco 452019-03-26T12:44:49+01:00

A.-38

A. – 38

Good morning, I am writing to you because some time ago I came to do a swinger couple massage with my husband. First of all I apologize but I would like to remain anonymous because sincerely I am a bit ashamed. The massage was a wonderful experience, I noticed a lot of involvement with the masseur, he invited me to touch and caress him. I’d like to know if it’s normal for me to feel excited with the masseur, not thinking at all about my partner. There were moments when I felt his body parts just above mine and I would really let myself go to a relationship. I can’t understand the extent to which the professional side and the pleasure of going further. Because I think there should also be feeling and transportation. If he hadn’t liked me he wouldn’t have looked at me and smelled that way, I think. I would like to come back and go further with him, but I don’t know if I’m fantasizing and above all I don’t know what kind of reaction my husband could have. I hope I haven’t offended anyone.

Hello A., we are happy that you found yourself well in our center, about your question, if it is normal to get excited during an erotic massage, the answer is already in the type of treatment you have chosen to do, in an erotic massage, and especially in the Swinger massage, the aim is to bring people who receive it into a state of well-being and gradual excitement, which progressively increases during the course of the massage, to do this we obviously work on stimulating all the senses , from hearing, smell, sight, to the touch, just to create an energy connection between those who practice and those who receive the treatment. The Swinger massage is a total body, it is worked all over the body with enveloping maneuvers and being a dynamic massage the person is invited to have a contact of caresses with the masseur and the masseuse, to establish a synergy between the parts. The seriousness and professionalism of a masseur or a masseuse lies precisely in creating a limit with the customer that should not be exceeded, otherwise it would no longer be a massage. The best thing about any erotic massage is to create a state of well-being and give emotions that we are not usually used to experiencing, even in a relationship with our partner. All those emotions and sensations you felt during the treatment, I can assure you that they are the same ones that your husband felt; because his thoughts were directed solely towards the masseur and not towards her husband, we cannot answer to this, everything is linked to your relationship and to the feeling that unites you. If you want to return to our center again, we will be happy to welcome you, always remembering that we do this work for passion and in a professional way, not practicing anything that does not fit into a massage.
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A.-382019-03-26T19:10:53+01:00

Roberto 40

Roberto – 40

Good morning. I am a married man with two young children. Unfortunately life has changed and I would like, even if in a hidden way, to have new experiences. Not knowing where to start I thought I could start with myself … What could you recommend? Which path to take? Thank you

Hello Roberto, married life, and above all that of father, mean that in a consolidated couple the intimacy and sexual complicity of the first years together may disappear, his problem unfortunately is common in many couples, that with the passing of the time, they dedicate themselves to their partner, no longer as a lover, but simply as a husband and family man, and obviously vice versa in the case of his wife. Keeping the fire of passion alive is fundamental to fully enjoy one’s married life, otherwise all those sexual and non-sexual pleasures that we no longer cultivate at home, with the natural consequences of a break of the relationship. What I advise you, is to rediscover the pleasure that has linked you to your partner, to start from there and together embark on a path of sexual growth that in recent years has definitely stopped. What is the best path to take will you discover together, talking to each other about their sexual fantasies, and how to share them. Remember the first fundamental thing that men often forget: the same sexual fantasies and needs that a man has, even a woman has them, so why look for what we already have at home?
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Roberto 402019-03-26T19:13:50+01:00

Marco 45

Marco – 45

Hello, I wanted your opinion. I practice 4-time tantra every time with 2 operators. Lately I am approaching 4-handed tantra with a nudity operator and operator. In this threesome context, I’m noticing that I can experience the massage more intensely. I wanted to know if, in your opinion, it may be even if unconsciously a first bisexual approach, even if this pleasure only manifests itself in a three-way context, even in the presence of a woman and not in the presence of a single male figure. Thank you

Hello Marco, the nature of each individual is divided by a male and a female component, sometimes in an individual one can be more pronounced with respect to another; for example in a homosexual man, the female component is much more accentuated than the male one, to experience erotic pleasure in an individual of the same sex, is not an abnormal or wrong thing, unfortunately our society has developed on heterosexual couple models , and just having sexual interest for a person of our own sex, has always been seen and interpreted as something wrong and sick, these prejudices have obviously created a series of misconceptions about sexuality. In your specific case, you are discovering that in a Tantra massage performed also by a man, it is not as annoying as you could have imagined, you have simply overcome that mental limit that imposes us all heterosexuals, and that an erotic fantasy can be born and can be developed even with another man.
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Marco 452019-03-26T19:16:38+01:00

Filippo – 35
Good morning. I would like to come for a tantra kundalini. I foresee it could lead to sexual arousal, but I do not want to have sex with the masseuse. What precautionary measures are available? Or is condom provided to prevent contact with her vaginal fluids and any infections risks?

Good morning Filippo, in the Tantra massage there is no contact with the masseuse, and no type of sexual relationship is contemplated, unfortunately today many people use the word Tantra to offer paid sex, but the Tantra massage is nothing of all that , it is a very relaxing and energetic massage, where one works mainly to unblock the client’s chakras and let our internal energy, the Kundalini, flow naturally. The treatment is done only with the hands, there is no type of interaction with the masseuse, and therefore it is not possible to contract any type of sexually transmitted disease.
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2018-06-27T15:54:01+02:00

Marco 45 en

Marco – 45

I would like to approach tantra bondage before trying pure BDSM. In tantra bondage it is possible to integrate the massage with spanking and strap-on (belt with phallus) by the masseuse. Thanks and congratulations for the forum

Hello Marco, Bondage massage is a treatment designed for those who want to approach the world of BDSM gradually and softly; this massage integrates some Tantra massage techniques into a soft BDSM session, where Spanking is also used. More extreme practices such as using the strap-on are not included in this type of treatment.

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Marco 45 en2019-03-26T19:22:56+01:00

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